Wednesday, December 13, 2006

The Memoirs of a Geisha



Almost ever profession is, or has been, threatened by those, who think they can do it, without, or with little, experience or genuine qualifications.
I recently watched the film, “The Memoirs of a Geisha”. A Geisha, in Japan, was a woman trained over many years to perfection, in a range of skills, to assist, usually frazzled males. The Geisha calmed and encouraged them by therapeutic conversation and non-sexual ministrations. She was usually a beautiful, well informed, intelligent and well presented woman.
There was a heartbreaking scene in the film after the invasion of American troops into Japan at the end of World War II. This was a time when almost any-woman who wished to do so, could put on a special kimono, and call themselves a Geisha.
Professionalism is obvious to those who know. It takes years of study and practice to dance like Margot Fonteyn, sing like Kiri Ti Kanawa, or hit a golf ball like Tiger Woods. Not only do true professionals have the background, they also prepare meticulously for each event.
When they are having breakfast they look like the test of us, but when they are on the job, they are prepared, primed and superb.
Quite a number of people call themselves professional celebrants. They think they are singing at the opera, but their real place is in the shower. There are the true professionals.
Ceremonies are important. It is necessary for people to seek and find. (Celebrants and Celebrancy)

Thursday, December 7, 2006

Celebrants, Toyota, Kaizen and David Oldfield


I was visiting my friends, David Oldfield and Merilee Janssen, in Washington DC. My talks with David always give me new insights. David is the only person ever to be awarded a Master of Celebrancy, Honoris Causa, from the international College of Celebrancy. ( http://www.collegeofclebrancy.edu.au )
David Oldfield is a person who learned his celebrancy at the coalface. He “cut his teeth” working with homeless young people and drug addicts. He discovered that the only successful way to assist people into long term behavioural change was through a Rite of Passage and Ceremony, that helped a person face the issues and make a positive commitment.
These days he is doing similar work with big corporations who wish to make business progress, but in an ethical and world-supporting way. His work, for example with Toyota, involves the communicating of two important principles -
Kaizen, and
Respect for Persons.
Kaizen is a revealing way of presenting a way of life philosophy which commits to incremental and continuous change for the better. Sometimes the Japanese really get it right. This is what I would like to persuade civil celebrants to take on board - Kaizen - the principle of incremental change for the better. Every ceremony, which the celebrant creates and performs, is a little better than the last one.
(Celebrants and celebrancy)

Wednesday, November 29, 2006

The power of Words – Vows, Compacts, Covenants


My wife, Remi Messenger, keeps a cutting about the Iraq War, which describes a decision of the Rumsfeld-Bush Administration, she finds especially galling.
It is about the Vow the soldier takes on joining the US Army.
Called the Soldier’s Creed, the Vow used to be:-

“I am an American soldier,
No matter what situation I am in,
I will never do anything for pleasure,
profit or personal safety,
which will disgrace my uniform.
I will use every means I have,
Even beyond the line of duty
To restrain my army comrades
From actions disgraceful
To themselves and the uniform.”

Army research and intelligence concludes that this vow inspired soldiers and marines, even in a hostile occupation, to be patient, confidence-building, and winners of hearts and minds. As well as the “necessary warfare”, it also led to building roads and bridges, and forging links with tribal and community leaders.
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But this was not good to the “shock and awe” mentality of Rumsfeld and Bush.
They changed the Vow to a “stirring” one called the Warrior Ethos, the wording of which is as follows: -

“ I am an American Soldier
I will never accept defeat.
I will never quit.
I stand ready to deploy
Engage and destroy,
the enemies of the United States of America
in close combat.”

With predictable results.

Such is the power of the Vow.

(The original story was from the Sunday Times of London. My wife’s copy was from the The Australian of Sept 25, 06, p.11)

Saturday, November 25, 2006

Mr Kerlin and Mr D’Arcy

News came to me last week (Nov 06) in New York of the tragic death of Queensland police officer Stewart Kerlin. It is sad to hear of anyone having their life cut short by such an horrendous circumstance.
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But I wonder too if Officer Kerlin was not a victim in other ways. I was distressed to hear of reports by private detectives of the practice of “trawling” by the Argos Task Force (Queensland Police. In plain language, this means that police set out to get a conviction by ignoring all favourable reports of the suspect, and only searching out those items of evidence, which are unfavourable.
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The Revelation of “trawling” in Great Britain and elsewhere has led to the overturning of many false convictions, especially in sexual crimes/allegations of the “Recovered Memory” kind.
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I attended one of the trials of William Theodore (Bill) D’Arcy, in which Officer Kerlin gave evidence. One of D’Arcy’s barristers wanted to cross-examine Kerlin about the trawling practices of the Argos Task Force. Judge O’Brien would not allow the questioning! I wrote a respectful letter to Judge O’Brien asking why he did this. He did not reply.
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Maybe he is not allowed to.

Friday, November 17, 2006

Mr Rivera and Mr D'Arcy


Yesterday in the New York Times (15Nov 06) I read about Mr Joshua Rivera who is doing a long sentence for murder. But now a great deal of evidence has come forward which exonerates him.

The system is the same in as In Australia. Once someone is found guilty, and then later evidence emerges that a grave miscarriage of justice has occured, the system does not like to admit that it is wrong - and they keep the person in Jail as long as they can.

This is what has happened to William Theodore (Bill) D'Arcy in Australia (Photo above with his wife and daughters). Much evidence has emerged , including evidence of perjury. There are also 15 items of evidence, which proves Bill D'Arcy left the school where the indictable offence was supposed to have occured nearly a year previously. There are many other indicators of his innocence - but in jail he stays.